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  • 3-2-1: The good & great and how to love yourself
    Mr. CJ Manalo
    in A lesson learned is a lesson shared
    Posted Mar 8, 2022

    3 Ideas From James Clear

    I.

    "The difference between good and great is often an extra round of revision.

    The person who looks things over a second time will appear smarter or more talented, but actually is just polishing things a bit more.

    Take the time to get it right. Revise it one extra time."

    ​II.

    "One of the best strategies for learning something quickly: corner a nerd.

    Find someone who totally geeks out about that topic and ask them every question you can think of."

    III.

    "A brief guide to compounding:

    If you don’t enjoy something, you won’t stick with it.

    If you don’t stick with it, it won’t compound.

    Being interested precedes the results."

    2 Quotes From Others

    I.

    Author and social activist bell hooks on how to love yourself:

    "One of the best guides to how to be self-loving is to give ourselves the love we are often dreaming about receiving from others. There was a time when I felt lousy about my over-forty body, saw myself as too fat, too this, or too that. Yet I fantasized about finding a lover who would give me the gift of being loved as I am.

    It is silly, isn't it, that I would dream of someone else offering to me the acceptance and affirmation I was withholding from myself. This was a moment when the maxim "You can never love anybody if you are unable to love yourself" made clear sense. And I add, "Do not expect to receive the love from someone else you do not give yourself."

    Source: All About Love: New Visions

    ​II.

    Author Toni Morrison on how to get better at writing—or anything, really:

    "I thought of myself as like the jazz musician: someone who practices and practices and practices in order to be able to invent and to make his art look effortless and graceful. I was always conscious of the constructed aspect of the writing process, and that art appears natural and elegant only as a result of constant practice and awareness of its formal structures."

    Source: The Paris Review

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    What am I continuing to do out of habit, but is no longer serving me?

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